dependence is a scary word we never really want to be personally associated with. it kinda strikes up negative connotations, and leaves you with a bland or sour taste in your mouth about certain people. be it being dependent on technology for communication or entertainment, friends and lovers for fun and emotional security; we are all dependent on something one way or the other.
however, all these nitty knick knacks aside, lack of confidence is probably one of the main reasons for emotional instability or low self esteem. fishing for compliments, passing judgement or being overly self-conscious are subconscious consequences of this lack of confidence, i reckon.
social creature, i am not. but i do enjoy good company teamed with much laughter and spirit. however, it doesn't make me dependent on friends. how else do you appreciate other people for their quirks if you don't appreciate yourself first.
however, all these nitty knick knacks aside, lack of confidence is probably one of the main reasons for emotional instability or low self esteem. fishing for compliments, passing judgement or being overly self-conscious are subconscious consequences of this lack of confidence, i reckon.
social creature, i am not. but i do enjoy good company teamed with much laughter and spirit. however, it doesn't make me dependent on friends. how else do you appreciate other people for their quirks if you don't appreciate yourself first.
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